Why Haven’t I Lacked Self-Confidence?

I read an article in The Atlantic last week about the vast “confidence gap” that separates the sexes, and it made me ponder why I haven’t suffered from the same self-doubts that afflict so many women.  The article’s authors, Katty Kay and Claire Shipman, point to several studies showing that women not only lack confidence about their performance and careers but often under-estimate their abilities—in contrast to men, who generally have few doubts about their competence or capacities.  This lack of self-assurance holds women back because, it turns out, confidence matters as much as competence in achieving professional success.

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What I learned in My First Year as a Female Startup CEO

How often do you hear about the dearth of women in technology, especially leading start ups? And then comes the litany of complaints about how awful it is to be a woman CEO in the testosterone-driven tech culture. That’s why it was so refreshing to read Yunha Kim’s smart take on her experience, concluding that it either sucks or is awesome depending on how you frame your own perspective. Take The Lead thinks its time we change the narrative to the awesome part. Read on for Yunha’s insights.

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How To Own Your Story

The minute I saw this post about storytelling as a leadership skill, by Joanne Tombrakos, I asked her if we could share it with Take The Lead readers. As she says, “When we own our stories we become a magnet. People want to know who we are. Read our stuff. Buy our products. Hire us. Maybe even take us on a date.” Our story is the root of our authenticity, the topic of Lex Schroeder’s June 26 webcast – sign up here to learn her authentic leadership tools. And read on for Joanne’s explanation of why sharing our story benefits us and the listener.

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Why Am I Deciding to Thrive and Lean In? Because Confidence Matters

Here’s the truth: women need to help other women and in order to do that confidence is a factor we need to focus on. The lack of confidence that women have in their abilities is by no means the entire reason for gender inequality, but it is certainly a factor in the equation.

I am sure by now most of you have heard of “The Confidence Gap”  piece that showed up in The Atlantic on April 14th and then subsequently all of the backlash from that article.

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Why Young Women Should Job Surf

People have often asked me what “career path” I took to becoming a management consultant to social justice organizations. Sometimes I give them my revisionist history, which makes it seem as though I consciously chose all my earlier jobs as building blocks toward this career. But more often I tell them the truth, which is that I simply took jobs that interested me, and where I ended up was mostly a function of serendipity.

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5 Women Who Lead Authentically, On Purpose, Every Day

“Authenticity” is an overused word for a pretty interesting and important idea. For most of us, it only starts to feel exciting when we see it in practice. Authenticity isn’t just an idea then. It’s something we do. And it’s something we better understand if we want to follow through on our goals for ourselves or our organizations or those ideas we have for the world (often that the world needs badly).

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Best Co-ed Colleges for Women

This fall, an estimated 12 million women will enroll in college. The number of women students surpassed men in 1980, and the gap has been widening ever since.

Since 2011, more working women have held college degrees than working men. Women now hold more advanced degrees than men. They are the majority consumer group of an educational system that treats them like newcomers or afterthoughts in many ways.

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